Prioritizing Family and Embracing the Power of Failing Forward
By: Garrett Wilhelm
When we embark on a new venture, especially one close to our hearts, we do so with fervent passion, enthusiasm, and a vision. The Ohana School was one such venture, deeply rooted in the ideals of holistic education and community growth. However, as the journey unfolded, it became evident that sometimes, the hardest decisions have to be made not just for the broader good but for the very core of our personal values: family.
The choice to close Ohana wasn't just a business decision, it was a deeply personal one. It was a testament to the adage that sometimes we need to close one door to ensure others remain wide open. For me, that 'other' door has always been my family.
Modeling Priorities for My Children
In our household, like many others, we often preach the importance of family, of being there for each other, and of making choices that reflect our core values. Actions, however, speak louder than words. Closing Ohana is a tangible, real-life demonstration to my children that when faced with tough choices, we must always circle back to our foundational values. In this case, it’s the well-being and togetherness of our family.
Children learn more from what they see than what they're told. They're always watching, absorbing, and emulating. By prioritizing family, I hope to instill in them the understanding that while careers, ventures, and projects are essential, nothing is more precious than the time, love, and commitment we offer to our loved ones.
The Lesson of Failing Forward
Life doesn't come with a blueprint. We navigate our paths based on the decisions we make at various crossroads. Not every decision will lead to the outcome we anticipate, and that's okay. The concept of "failing forward" is about understanding that setbacks are not the end; they're merely a pivot to a new direction.
By closing Ohana, I am not admitting defeat but embracing change. It's an opportunity to reflect, learn, and grow, both as an educator and a parent. It's essential for my children to see that it's okay to change course when something isn't aligning with our values or goals. What matters is how we adapt, learn, and move forward from those experiences.
In many ways, this chapter's end is the beginning of many more lessons, adventures, and stories. As we transition and refocus our energies on Creative Gardens, the spirit of Ohana – of family, community, and unwavering commitment – will always remain a guiding force.
To the families, staff, and everyone who has been part of The Ohana School's journey, I extend my heartfelt gratitude. Every experience, connection, and memory forged here will forever remain a cherished part of our collective story. Together, we move forward, with our heads held high, hearts full, and an unshakable belief in the power of family and the journey of learning.